It doesn’t matter if Rashmi current situation is because of the stress of life here .. or because I wasn’t able to be supportive and connect on a deeper level because of avoidant personality, or because of her past. what needs to be done is :
1) I need to be there for her: Connect with her on a deeper level. ( I had this issue before , remember getting mad at Namita , or not having a girlfriend ever, or not having close friends , except bhaskar.)
2) It is possible for me to get closer to someone. ( think of bhaskar )
3) Give Rashmi the oppurtunity to be more social , without asking her to make friends )
4) Help her with kitchen , every day without fail.
5) Imagine the home of a drug addict. Even if our home is like that: Dont feel bad. It might be hard for me to fix it , but i can do atleast some of it with some effort.
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Connecting with Rashmi
